(Hosea 6) It was necessary

Come, and let us return to the Lord; for He has torn, but He will heal us; He has stricken, but He will bind us up. After two days He will revive us; on the third day He will raise us up, that we may live in His sight.

He has torn only because it was necessary.  As a last resort. He took no delight in it.  He takes delight in healing us, in binding us up.